@anildash “most of the money coming out of the faucet is not their own”
And even their spending money, the “bucket” of sorts, is generally not actually theirs. It tends to be money borrowed against their investments. So what would look like income to you and I, is actually technically a debt for them…with all the associated tax benefits.
I think also that people, especially those who believe “anyone can do it by their bootstraps”, don’t understand the huge advantages of being wealth adjacent even if you aren’t wealthy. They don’t accrue as much if you’re poor, but if you have enough money to take advantage of adjacency, they can be huge. A job or school reference that carries a lot of weight, a vacation where all you have to cover is the flight to get there, a loan of a home/pool/resort to hold an event for your friends or coworkers, the opportunity to meet major decision makers socially, a family loan at minimum rates, front row tickets to a game, access to exclusive clubs…. It’s a huge amount of social capital that can be leveraged into financial capital.