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oh man, I can’t stop laughing. I’m sitting in a #café and a little boy walks in – maybe 8 or 9 years old. he orders something tiny, espresso-sized – maybe a mini hot chocolate, maybe even #coffee. doesn’t matter. and let’s not even get into whether he should be drinking that at his age.

but he ordered it. got it served in one of those tiny espresso cups… and then had to carry it – full! – across the entire #café without spilling a drop.

not an easy task when you’re 8. and it really was a big #journey for him. he walked. slowly, carefully, like on a tightrope. eyes locked on the cup, every step deliberate and precise.

it took him a full two minutes to reach a free table – with some people’s eyes glued to him and his little #journey.

he finally sat down, drank the whole thing in three seconds… and walked out.

and I nearly burst out laughing. all that effort – for what? 🙂

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they're all, in some way, relying on the ancient assumption that emotions are hardwired into our brains and bodies. Revising that conception of emotion isn't just good science, Barrett shows; it's vital to our wellbeing and the health of society itself.

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Emotions don't exist objectively in nature, Barrett explains, and they aren't pre-programmed in our brains and bodies; rather, they are psychological experiences that each of us constructs based on our unique personal history, physiology and environment. This new view of emotions has serious implications: when judges issue lesser sentences for crimes of passion, when police officers fire at threatening suspects, or when doctors choose between one diagnosis and another...

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finding expression on our faces and in our behaviour, and carrying us away with the experience.This understanding of emotion has been around since Aristotle. But what if it's wrong? In How Your Emotions Are Made, pioneering psychologist Lisa Feldman Barrett draws on the latest scientific evidence to reveal that our ideas about emotion are dramatically, even dangerously, out of date - and that we have been paying the price.

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When you feel anxious, angry, happy, or surprised, what's really going on inside you? Most scientists would agree that emotions come from specific parts of the brain, and that we feel them whenever they're triggered by the world around us. The thrill of seeing an old friend, the sadness of a tear-jerker movie, the fear of losing someone you love - each of these sensations arises automatically and uncontrollably within us...

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Why do emotions feel automatic? Does rational thought really control emotion? How does emotion affect disease? How can you make your children more emotionally intelligent? How Emotions Are Made answers these questions and many more, revealing the latest research and intriguing practical applications of the new science of emotion, mind, and brain.

Oh, I guess there's an #introduction I have to do. My name is Brandon but friends call me B. I've taken a liking to the stage name "Breathe Easy" as I use to produce music and it fit an acronym to my given nickname.

I've had a difficult life dealing with difficult #emotions. With having been taught some #psychology through self teaching, therapy, (slowly) an online course, plant medicine, #experience and having an unique perspective; I want to use this platform as way to share my #knowledge. 1

What is the anatomy of an emotion? First, you experience the emotion. Nothing makes sense in that moment. You're just dripping in whatever chemicals soaked you because your body and mind responded to a thing that happened. You just sit with this emotion for a while, probably a little lost as to how you got there.

And then you enter a new stage, hopefully, where to acknowledge that what you're experiencing is an emotion. You sort of grab hold of it and lift it up and say, "Hey, I see you. You're an emotion." You're still experiencing the emotion, but at the same time you've realized that it is a thing. And there's a decent chance you're a little less lost as to what happened.

In the next stage, you move from discovering that you've experienced an emotion, to determining or estimating the nature of the emotion. For example, "Oh, I'm afraid!" or "Oh, I'm sad!" You still don't really know why, but you've started to name it and now it's taking shape in your mind. It might take a minute to determine whether you're sad, mad, afraid, anxious, embarrassed or whatever. And it might be a combination of one or more other emotions.

After you mostly come to terms with the emotions you're experiencing as far as what they're called, then you need to do some work to figure out why you're experiencing these emotions. This can be a bit tricky, but if you're deliberate about it, you can get fairly close to the source. In complex situations, it might be that you were triggered and got hammered from a residual well-worn emotion from your past. In less complex situations, it is just the thing that happened a few seconds ago.

Once these steps are completed, then you might need some time to sit and think through what just happened and step through the anatomy of these emotions. In most cases, it's not simple like this, but what I've described is the skeleton of the process. It may take a few minutes to do this work or it make take months, or even years. The key is to practice and follow repeatable steps for your emotional investigations. Good luck! 👍